TY - BOOK AU - Bstan-ʾdzin-rgya-mtsho AU - Tutu,Desmond Mpilo AU - Abrams,Douglas TI - The book of joy: lasting happiness in a changing world SN - 9780399185045 AV - BL 65 B916b 2016 U1 - 294.3/444 PY - 2016/// CY - New York PB - Avery, an imprint of Penguin Random House KW - Happiness KW - Religious aspects KW - Felicidad KW - Aspectos religiosos KW - Joy KW - Alegría N1 - Arrival: We are fragile creatures Day 1: The nature of true joy. Why are you not morose? Nothing beautiful comes without some suffering Have you renounced pleasure? Our greatest joy Lunch: The meeting of two mischievous people is wonderful Days 2 & 3: The obstacles to joy. You are a masterpiece in the making Fear, stress, and anxiety: I would be very nervous Frustration and anger: I would shout Sadness and grief: The hard times knit us more closely together Despair: The world is in such turmoil Loneliness: No need for introduction Envy: That guy goes past yet again in his Mercedes-Benz Suffering and adversity: Passing through difficulties Illness and fear of death: I prefer to go to hell Meditation: Now I'll tell you a secret thing Days 4 & 5: The eight pillars of joy. Perspective: There are many different angles Humility: I tried to look humble and modest Humor: Laughter, joking is much better Acceptance: The only place where change can begin Forgiveness: Freeing ourselves from the past Gratitude: I am fortunate to be alive Compassion: Something we want to become Generosity: We are filled with joy Celebration: Dancing in the streets of Tibet Departure: A final goodbye Joy practices N2 - Nobel Peace Prize Laureates His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu have survived more than fifty years of exile and the soul-crushing violence of oppression. Despite their hardships -- or, as they would say, because of them -- they are two of the most joyful people on the planet. In April 2015, Archbishop Tutu traveled to the Dalai Lama's home in Dharamsala, India, to celebrate His Holiness's eightieth birthday and to create what they hoped would be a gift for others. They looked back on their long lives to answer a single burning question: How do we find joy in the fact of life's inevitable suffering? They traded intimate stories, teased each other continually, and shared their spiritual practices. We get to listen as they explore the Nature of True Joy and confront each of the Obstacles of Joy -- from fear, stress, and anger to grief, illness, and death. They then offer us the Eight Pillars of Joy, which provide the foundation for lasting happiness. Throughout, they include stories, wisdom, and science. Finally, they share their daily Joy Practices that anchor their own emotional and spiritual lives ER -